by Beth High
High Road Consulting
This issue's seed for conversation is "Curiosity".
What role does curiosity play in leadership? When you think of strong leaders, do you think of them as curious? I don't know about you, but my mind goes straight to a cute little monkey named George who was always being corralled to safety by the guy in the yellow hat. The word is not always associated with Leadership. In a workshop I conduct regularly with varied groups, I ask people to identify the qualities of leadership they attribute to various quotes of famous leaders ranging from Patton to Ghandi. As you might suspect, the answers are wide ranging but there are a few that almost always appear: Visionary, Innovative, Inspiring, Empowering, Humble and Compassionate are at the top of the list. So if these are qualities people associate with Leadership, where does curiosity fit in? Let's explore the list.
Visionary: A visionary leader is one who can create an image of the future and convey it effectively to those he or she intends to lead so that it is a shared vision. It is the essence of the second practice of The Leadership Challenge, by Kouzes and Posner. To come up with that vision requires a deep sense of curiosity about how things could be. A leader's curiosity drives them to question the way things are and opens their minds to picturing how things might be different.
Innovative: Innovation stems from curiosity. The innovative leader challenges the status quo with their curiosity and belief that things might always be improved. They are willing to branch off and move in a new direction. They are comfortable with the state of not knowing all the answers and tend to explore the unknown with curious questions such as: "What if we tried...." "If we thought about it completely differently..." "Who's got thoughts on this?"
Inspiring: A leader who inspires us, has learned what they really care about and conveys it in a way that helps reveal for us what we care about. It is the phenomenon that Jim describes in his newsletter article from last month: "...the act of teaching is the act of learning. The deepest kind of learning" . That learning grows from curiosity about your values, examining them, owning them, and living them.
Empowering: A Leader who empowers is open to seeing how someone else will deal with a situation. They have a built in curiosity that let's them know there is more than one way to do things and that being curious about people's capacity, leads to building capacity.
Humble: A leader's humility stems from their deep belief that they don't have all the answers, they just have a vision and want to share and achieve it with you. They are curious about how it can best be achieved. They put out a potential path, then listen for ideas that are better. The goal is to reach or attain the vision, not to be the one who decided all alone how to get there.
Compassionate: Compassion is defined as: "the sympathetic concern for the suffering of another together with the inclination to give aid or support" . To demonstrate compassion, a leader therefore needs to have sympathy and empathy for another's situation. That empathy requires curiosity about the feelings, capacities, and circumstances of another person which might be very different than the leaders. Compassion is also about suspending judgment. It stems from curiosity of the heart and being able to understand that others may feel things differently than you do.
When Hurricane Katrina devastated New Orleans in August, there were those who were not compassionate to the plight of people who "chose" to make their home in an area that was below sea level. The sentiment seemed to be they should have known this would happen one day? A compassionate person would stay curious and look at the complexity of how the city came to be. They might recognize the richness of the culture is there because of the geography and how people settled into it and understand that families and communities develop organically with the environment they occupy. The curious mind would understand there is not an easy answer and feel compassion for the Gulf Coast residents who lost so much.
Curiosity will play a huge role for those who lead the massive undertaking of rebuilding these culturally rich communities. How can they reestablish the character of these places yet better protect those that make it up. It will take many leaders, and it will require inspiration, innovation, humility, vision, empowerment, compassion, and yes, lots of curiosity.
What can you do to build curiosity into your leadership style? Are you curious about those you lead, how they feel, how they think, what they dream? How can you encourage curiosity in those who choose to follow you. The reward won't be a man in a yellow hat keeping you from harms way, but a life long adventure in learning.
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